Marriage to LC

This thread is copy paste by LC from LC-Friendster Blog 15 November 2007 - Thursday.


Marriage is the most sacred thing to do with ur special some1.

It involves Love, Joy, Sacrifice, Compromise, and Appreciation.
Commitment in marriage is never easy, that’s why it’s precious. Don’t ever think about marrying some1 if u’re not ready to commit, u will hurt GOD.


LOVE

Love her … as your special person, forever. But the most important is to love her as a person
created by God Himself, for you. So keep her safe, treat her right. Love her unconditionally, like the way God always loves u.



JOY

Enjoy every minute of ur life with her, even in the darkest moment of your life, coz even life become so worse, u still have ur special some1 to share with by ur side.


COMPROMISE

Compromise, accept her for the way she is, all her flaws, all her quirky, all the bad things that she’s done or will do. Compromise if she sometimes loves to do things that u don’t really like. coz sometimes, if u rethink it, non of it really matter.


SACRIFICE

Sacrifice the things that u usually have such as the habit that she doesn’t like, the spare time that u usually have it all for urself, the freedom to do anything at anytime u want.



APPRECIATE

Appreciate all little things that she does for you, like a cute email that she send just to say I miss u. Like cooks that she made even though she can’t cook and taste bad. Like small kiss on ur cheek, or forehead.


And.. also appreciate that she needs to have personal quality time all for herself, personal things that she has to keep by herself, personal stuff that’s limited for u to see, marriage doesn’t mean u own her nor everything that she own, marriage mean sharing, not having.


Consider your partner like sands in ur hand;
If you open your hands too wide, wind will blow her away. On the contrary, if u hold it too tight, you will still have her, but just a lil bit of her, small part of her, coz most of it manage to get
out from your hand and also blown away by wind.
What u should do it’s to hold her rite, not too tight, not too loose.

Well, hard to do all of this coz human is human after all.
Most of the time, u’ll be all selfish, all about wanting to get the compromise, wanting ur partner to be the 1 who sacrifice, etc etc etc.

So… remember this 1 thing,

Balance is perfection.